Hello everyone,
Today, I want to talk about something that many of us have faced at one time or another: people who think they can push you around, make you feel small, and act like they’re in control of your life. But here’s the truth — most of the time, these people are just putting on a show. There’s nothing real behind their words or actions. It’s all smoke and mirrors.
Let me explain what I mean by that. When someone tries to bully you, they often act tough, like they have all the power. But if you look closely, you’ll see that what they’re doing is just an act. Like a magician on stage, they use tricks to make themselves look bigger or stronger than they are. They make you believe they’re unstoppable, but really, they’re hiding their own fears and insecurities.
Bullies often push others around because they’re dealing with problems of their own. Maybe they feel powerless in other parts of their lives, so they try to take control in places where they can. They want to make you feel weak so that they can feel strong. But deep down, they’re just as scared as the rest of us. Their tough talk and bad behavior are just ways to cover up what’s really going on inside them.
When you realize that, you see the bully for what they really are — someone who’s trying to distract you from the truth. And the truth is, they don’t have any real power over you. They only have the power you give them. If you stop believing in the tricks they play, their magic show falls apart. It’s just smoke and mirrors.
So, what can we do about it? First, we have to remind ourselves of our own worth. No one has the right to make you feel less than you are. You are strong, capable, and worthy of respect. Stand tall and don’t let anyone take that away from you.
Next, we have to learn to see through the tricks. When someone is trying to push you around, take a step back and ask yourself: “What’s really going on here? Why are they acting this way?” Often, the answer has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them. Once you understand that, their words and actions lose their power.
Finally, we have to support each other. We’re all in this together. If you see someone being pushed around, stand by their side. Let them know they’re not alone. When we stand together, bullies can’t break us. We become stronger than any smoke and mirrors they try to hide behind.
Remember, the only power a bully has is the power you give them. Take that power back by seeing them for what they really are. No one can push you around if you don’t let them.
Thank you.
