Nobody is going to change you , you are the one taking control of your life. The only way you are ever going to reach your full potential is by making your own mind up. If your not in control you’ll never truly be happy because your not exactly where you want to be. You could be stood five steps to the left but how are you supposed to know if your never in the driving seat. If you want change , you’ll have to do it yourself.
If your passionate enough about something then all you’ll do is be stood at the front choosing your own path. That’s not saying you can’t ask for help , you can accept suggestions and guidance but never take orders. Follow your heart and that’s all you need nothing else. Your passion your determination and happiness. Without those your going nowhere any time soon. Believe in yourself and you can concur the world.